My dreams

It hurts to love and not be loved in return .Mostly if we don't see and know love on the biblical perspective which tells us to love one another even though the other person hurts us .Loving someone based on the book of  1 Corinthians 13:4-7 which tells us that love is patient ,love is kind ,it does not keep record of wrong ,it does not boast .....

Loving someone without expecting to be loved back is something that most of us are not able to do . It involves studying their character to know what makes them happy or sad ,embracing their flaws by remembering that no one is perfect.Trying to understand why they act a certain way ,how to handle them on their best and  worst behavior .Trying so hard to make sure that each passing day you do things to put a smile on their face . It is cumbersome to do all these things for someone who does not value you the same way you value them . It's human nature to seek attention , to be cared for and to be loved .

You might feel like a loser to love someone who doesn't love you back .Maybe it's wrong to feel this way ,loving someone who doesn't love you the same way makes you stronger and gives u a sense of relief  to know that in spite of them not loving you back ,love was planted and it grew in your heart .