My dreams

My first week  in obstetrics  has been quiet interesting. I was praying to God to send me back to my old unit where I rotated but then I ended up in a different unit. I must say , I was impressed  how God works because He sent me to a different unit which is good as my old unit. I might not have gone to the unit which I wanted but God sent me a good unit which has good colleagues .

Obstetrics is quiet involving because it's all about hands on and thinking fast . Every second counts in obstetrics, I have to think fast if a mother comes with fetal distress. It means thinking about a tactic which will involve saving both the mother and the unborn baby. The pregnancy period is 3/4 of a year so every woman wants to deliver and get over with it to start a new phase ,motherhood!

It  is quiet tiresome especially on call days when I  have to be in labour ward the whole day admitting mothers . What put a smile on my face is seeing a mother who came in pain smile as she carries   her bundle or bundles of joy . I am yet to learn more about it but as for now I will just enjoy the ride .

I really enjoyed my holiday in Malawi.  Seems like 2 weeks was not enough you stay home since I have not been home for 7 months since I last got posted . It was good to reconnect with  my friends and family.  Although I never had  enough time to meet everyone  who I promised to meet .It was hard to visit all places and see all people because I was tied up with a lot of family issues . I am truly sorry for that. 

I am back in Lusaka now.Will report at obstetrics  and gynecology.  Yey!The beauty of pregnancy and bringing life into this world. I am so excited and I hope it will be a wonderful experience with good mentors to mentor me .

I have been talking to alot of people who have I can call  a slightly pressing issue concerning the people they like . I have come to realise that there is a difference between men and women when it comes to liking one another .
Most of the times when a guy likes a girl he wants to get to know her better . He wants to be her friend first,  in other words "friend  zone " her . He wants to study her ,dig deeper  to know her true colours , what she likes and hates the whole shebang  .
We ladies are different !When a guy likes us we want the guy to ask us out and then when things are official  we start studying the person . As long as the person is single and he's is serious about dating us ,we are good to go . We don't have time to start friend zoning you!Once you're friend zoned it means ure on the brother list and  we won't be interested to promote you to the Bae position .

This is where men and women differ ,most men think we are impatient because we like someone and then after some weeks of trying to get to know that person we want to be asked out.We want to know where a our conversations are  leading to . One of the annoying things that most of us find is when someone shows interest in you and  start slacking after sometime.The calls stop , the messages are responded after so many hours or not at all . That is why we don't like it when guys want to get to know us better . They loose interest after a while and then waste our time ,sucks to know that one's time has been wasted .

I believe that if someone is really interested in you,  they won't give excuses like they are busy or trying to take things slow. Come on !there are 24 hours a day , so you mean you can't spare time to find out how someone you show interest in is doing ? If you like someone pay attention to them, find  out how they are doing. Guys stop making someone like you and then stop paying attention  to them when they also show interest.