My dreams

I have been talking to alot of people who have I can call  a slightly pressing issue concerning the people they like . I have come to realise that there is a difference between men and women when it comes to liking one another .
Most of the times when a guy likes a girl he wants to get to know her better . He wants to be her friend first,  in other words "friend  zone " her . He wants to study her ,dig deeper  to know her true colours , what she likes and hates the whole shebang  .
We ladies are different !When a guy likes us we want the guy to ask us out and then when things are official  we start studying the person . As long as the person is single and he's is serious about dating us ,we are good to go . We don't have time to start friend zoning you!Once you're friend zoned it means ure on the brother list and  we won't be interested to promote you to the Bae position .

This is where men and women differ ,most men think we are impatient because we like someone and then after some weeks of trying to get to know that person we want to be asked out.We want to know where a our conversations are  leading to . One of the annoying things that most of us find is when someone shows interest in you and  start slacking after sometime.The calls stop , the messages are responded after so many hours or not at all . That is why we don't like it when guys want to get to know us better . They loose interest after a while and then waste our time ,sucks to know that one's time has been wasted .

I believe that if someone is really interested in you,  they won't give excuses like they are busy or trying to take things slow. Come on !there are 24 hours a day , so you mean you can't spare time to find out how someone you show interest in is doing ? If you like someone pay attention to them, find  out how they are doing. Guys stop making someone like you and then stop paying attention  to them when they also show interest.