My dreams

This afternoon I sat on the patio with my friend and confidante catching up since we haven't seen each other in months . During our one of conversations we started talking about relationships and their drama.
We just reached a conclusion that when a man wants to stay In your life , he will stay on your life no matter what . He can have a side chick who is rich , who spoils him many ways . Showers him with gifts , fuelling his car and running his errands . If he wants to stay with you he will stick around no matter what the side chick does !
A man can be in a non sexual relationship with you and get a side chick who he screws the brains out of her every now and then .The side chick can be a slut in bed and do whatever pleases him and yet ure with him in this non sexual relationship , if he wants to stay with you , he will stay with you !
A man can have a side chick who is tired of being a side chick and wants to be promoted to main chick by planning a hostile takeover from you . If the guy wants to stay with you, he will stay with you . One thing about hostile takeover is that it needs both parties to be willing ,the guy and the side chick .
I am not promoting infidelity or backing the male species but then the conclusion is that if a man wants to be with you he will be with you . Sometimes we try so hard to keep a man who is not worth it to be in our lives .We waste our time and sometimes  invest in the guy thinking that maybe he will stick around . Always remember that it's risky to invest in a man or waste time with someone whose intentions are not clear .
Let me conclude that no matter what you do , if someone wants to be with you they will be with you and it doesn't require you to go an extra mile for him to stay .